Jeffersontown United Methodist Church
Monday, September 06, 2010
Christ Centered, Spirit Led, People Focused

From The Pastor

Weekly thoughts of our pastor, Mark.

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Having A Vision, and Helping To Make It Happen

Sunday, October 11, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)

Thanks to all of you who attended our Town Hall Meeting on Sunday in the Social Hall.  Many very worthwhile things were shared as we gathered together, and a lot of good can come out of this.  Keep the follow up to this event in your prayers.  It is so important that all of us work together, continue to listen to each other, and  find ways of moving forward in ministry.

One thing that was mentioned  yesterday was a need for a new vision for our church that will focus our ministry and our life together.  I agree that this is a foundational element that we need to put in place.  We will begin that process right away, and it will be very interesting, and even fun, to see where God leads us in that process.  It is important, however, to bear in mind that a unified vision of ministry is not something we can pull together in a week or two and be on our way.  It will take some thought, some prayer, and some significant discussion to get to the result we want.  Then we need to understand that the result will be a STARTING POINT for our work, not an end goal.

I want you to be thinking about dreams and visions you would like to see happen in this church.  We need to talk about those dreams and visions, and they will help us understand God’s dream for the church.  Perhaps we need have a specific vision for children and youth (most every church wants that).  Perhaps we want to have a special vision for missions or evangelism.  We will start having these kinds of discussions soon, so be thinking about your ideas and how God might have spoken to you about this.

Having a vision, though is also a difficult thing.  When any group gets a new vision and focus in place, it means making some hard choices about how we do things.  It may mean letting go of some programs we are currently doing that some people like.  It may require us to hire new staff or make changes in our physical structure.  It may mean making changes in many ways.  It may also mean making difficult decisions in the future.  If someone wants to start a new program that isn’t in line with the new vision, we may have to say “Thanks for the idea, but it’s not a good match for us at this time.”   If financing is an issue (which it almost ALWAYS is), we can’t be afraid to step up to the plate.  We may have to look at creative ways of raising money or finding volunteers or resources, but if we are going to be true to a vision that God gives us, we can’t sit back and say, “we just didn’t have them money this time.”

We talked a lot at our Town Hall Meeting about renewing commitments and holding feet to the fire, not letting things slip away from us.  That has to be important to all of us.  We can’t take leadership roles and then let sports leagues or civic clubs keep us from being active and getting the job done.  It is so easy to get distracted from our church these days.  So many things are GOOD things to do.  So many opportunities are before us that never were there before.  Some of them are optional things, but many of them are important things, and we have to have strong commitments to the church AND the vision to move forward with it.  

You’ve heard me say it before (and you will again).  These are hard days to be a church.  We need to have strong leadership from the pastor’s office, we must have strong leadership from the lay people of the church, and we must have a unified vision and a commitment to working together.  In an almost all volunteer organization, that is a great challenge.

Please keep this challenge in your prayers every day.  Join us at the prayer time in the Chapel to lift this up together (5 p.m. on Sunday afternoons).  Think and pray about what God might want you to do and what constructive role you might play in our church’s future.

It’s easy to say we want good things to happen, it’s hard to make good things happen.  The wheels of progress sometimes turn slowly.  It’s hard to keep communication at it’s maximum efficiency.  It’s hard to keep the calendar coordinated.  It’s hard to cross every T and dot every I.  It takes a LOT of work and it all must be undergirded by a LOT of prayer.  But we can do it.

There were a lot of us leaving the Town Hall Meeting wanting those good things to happen,  so let’s pray and talk and work and dream and make it happen.
       

                                                            God bless,
                                                            Pastor Mark

Gaslight Lesson

Saturday, September 26, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)

FROM THE PASTOR….    Wow, what a weekend!  Gaslight is always an amazing event in the life of our church.  Major kudos to Caroline Westfall and the Gaslight Committee and EVERY SINGLE INDIVIDUAL who pitched in and helped -  whether a lot or a little.  It went SO WELL, and although we do not have dollar figures yet to report, the success of the event is really defined in a spirit of cooperation and a monumental task that comes together and works out well.

            It seems like every year we, in the beginning of  the process, all wonder how it will all get done.  Every year we seem to be nervous about things happening.  Every year we wonder if people will sign up or show up.  Every year we get nervous, but every year it has come together.  I think this year we were especially organized and plans were especially well executed.  All the worries and anxious moments were overshadowed by the success, and we can certainly put our feet up and breathe a sigh of relief and be proud of what we accomplished.

            A couple of lessons come alive in this event, I think.  Lessons that we forget very easily and often, no matter how many times we learn them. The first is that God is faithful.  God supplies all of our needs according to his riches in Glory.  God always comes through.  God always watches out for us.  When we do our part (and sometimes even when we don’t) God does God’s part.  If we fill the water pots, God turns the water into wine.  If we step out of the boat and keep our eyes on Christ, God will keep us from sinking.  If we cast our nets to the other side of the boat, the catch comes in.  It’s so easy to worry, so hard to trust, but God always is faithful.

            The second is that big jobs get done with small steps.  When the task seems too big, we get stunned by the enormity of it, but every job, big or small, gets done the same way, one step at a time.  We take each step, ask God to bless it, then ask God to guide the next step.  One step at a time even the biggest task will get done.  With a little focus, a little perseverance, and a little faith we move forward.  It’s true when we’re sorting out personal issues at home. It’s true when we’re getting a project done at work.  And it’s true with things at church.  With many things, it doesn’t matter where you start, just dig in and do something, then do the next thing, and take the next step, and it’s amazing what happens. 

            One day at a time, life happens.  Trust God for some direction.  Depend on God to be faithful, and amazing things will happen in each of our lives, and in a corporate life as a church.  Gaslight illustrates so well how God can work with everything, if we just let him and cooperate just a little!

            Let’s let God work with us!
            Pastor Mark

The Art Of Giving

Friday, August 28, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
FROM THE PASTOR…. …. ….
Here’s something I found that I thought well worth sharing.
 
The Art of Giving

We give of ourselves
when we give gifts of the heart:
Love, kindness, joy, understanding, sympathy,
tolerance, forgiveness.
We give of ourselves
when we give gifts of the mind:
Ideas, dreams, purposes, ideals, principles,
plans, projects, poetry.
We give of ourselves
when we give gifts of the spirit:
Prayer, vision, beauty, aspiration, peace, faith.
We give of ourselves
when we give the gift of words:
Encouragement, inspiration, guidance.

Emerson said it well:  "Rings and jewels are not gifts,
but apologies for gifts. The only true gift is a portion of thyself."
 
From The Art of Living
by Wilfred A. Peterson
 
Of course, the Bible speaks all through its pages about the art of giving, and tells us of the best example of giving in God’s gift of his Son and our Savior.  Let’s do our best to give our best to God in every way.  

See you in church!
Pastor Mark

Redemption Happens...

Thursday, August 06, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
The Bible is so timeless in its stories and its teaching.  I am always amazed at how old stories we’ve read 1000 times come alive each time with new lessons for us.  Someone recently shared with me that they were out of the habit of reading their Bible and were frustrated with all the things they didn’t know or had forgotten.

When I was a senior in high school, one of our English electives was The Bible as Literature.  On the first day of class the teacher, someone who went to my church, gave a pop quiz.  She asked us to write down all the Scripture we had memorized.  I was mortified.  And of course, we all panicked and no one could remember anything. Many of us could scrape out most of John 3:16 and the 23rd Psalm.   One person would mention something and another verse would come to mind.  But when we started talking about the experience, it was amazing how much we called to mind.  The Lord’s Prayer is taken directly from Scripture.  Little quips like “Get thee behind me Satan”  are things we say all the time without even realizing we remember them, but they are hidden in our hearts.

The wonderful richness of God’s Word applies to everyday life in unbelievable ways.  Sometimes we don’t pay attention to Scripture as we should. Someone else commented to me recently at how amazing it is we don’t learn from Scripture or from history very well.  People keep making the same mistakes over and over.  People keep hurting each other.  People keep messing up their lives.  People do stupid things.  

The value of Scripture is in how it teaches us about love and encouragement and grace and forgiveness.  When we let those stories and lessons which are hidden in our hearts come out of hiding, redemption happens.  Redemption happens within our own hearts, and in relationships of all kinds, and in our work and play and in our purpose for living.

Let’s remember as it gets to be time for school to start again to be busy about learning the lessons God has for us.  As we apply His Word to our living, life really transforms into something beautiful.  There is hope for the darkest of situations.  There is laughter in the saddest moments.  There is love for the most fractured family.   God’s Word teaches us in new ways every time we read it.  Spend some time letting God teach you today!


                                                            See you in church!
                                                            Pastor Mark

Invite Someone to Church

Wednesday, July 29, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
So many of us wonder why “the world” doesn’t seem to be interested in church any more.  We are sad that people don’t come to church as much, and we wish they would but what can we do?
            This is one of those issues we need to “rethink”  in big ways.  Evangelism is always an important issue for the church, but so many things have changed in our society, we cannot do the same old thing we’ve always done (which often times has been nothing anyway) and expect people to respond in positive ways. 
            We need to be aware that people are busier these days than ever before.  Even committed church people are coming less to church because of being busy with worthwhile things.  To draw in people who are not committed to a life of faith or to church, we must impress on them the high degree of importance it can make in their lives.  God certainly does his part in that regard, but we don’t always do ours.  People have time for what they want to have time for, even in busy days, but we must be constantly aware of the value of faith  if we are to convey that value to others.
            And one reason people aren’t as interested in church these days is that WE DO NOT MAKE AN EFFORT TO INVITE THEM!  One of our church members told me, “If you haven’t invited someone to church this week, you owe God an apology.”  Isn’t that the truth!   We have convinced ourselves that faith is very personal and we shouldn’t be too personal with people.  And we have all seen people who can be obnoxious about evangelism, but that doesn’t mean WE have to be obnoxious about it.  And the bottom line is, if it’s not important enough for us to invite others to come, then others won’t think it’s very important either. 
            The most effective means of evangelism has not changed even through all the changes in culture and society.  The most effective means of evangelism is a personal invitation from a friend.  Faith IS personal, but we cannot let it be PRIVATE.  We must be willing to have personal relationships with others, just like God sent Christ to have a personal relationship with us.  All of us have friends who don’t go to church, and all the time we are having fun and interesting things happening here that are worthy of an invitation.  So even if you don’t invite someone to a Sunday morning service, invite them to the Talent Show or a Roadrunners outing or youth group or Christ’s Kidz. 
            Others will care when we care enough to ask them to come.  Everyone we ask will not come, and many that do come will not come the first time we ask, but one of the best ways to care for someone is to bring them to church.  One of the best ways to get them to come is by asking them.  If each of us would bring just one person to church, we would double our attendance and double our influence.  Who do you know that you could invite? 
            Rethink your commitment to Christ and the church.  Are you willing to make an invitation this week?

See you in church!
Pastor Mark

Be Still

Wednesday, July 22, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
So many people have been having hard times recently.  People in our country have been having economic struggles.  The war has put many families in stressful situations.  Jobs are hard to come by.  So many of US have been having hard times.  I don’t EVER remember a time of more heartache, sickness and death affecting our church.  It has been a rough couple of months.
            It’s important in times like this to RE-THINK our spiritual life.  It’s easy to panic or to get into negative mindsets and blame or complain.  The Bible offers a different approach to things.  Psalm 46 is where we read the verse, “Be still and know that I am God.”  Below is Eugene Peterson’s translation of this Psalm from “THE MESSAGE.”
It’s important to remember that God has not failed us yet, and he will not anytime soon or in the distant future either.  GOD IS FAITHFUL.  GOD WILL SEE US THROUGH. 
 
Psalm 46
 1-3 God is a safe place to hide, ready to help when we need him.
   We stand fearless at the cliff-edge of doom,
        courageous in seastorm and earthquake,
   Before the rush and roar of oceans, the tremors that shift mountains.
   Jacob-wrestling God fights for us, God-of-Angel-Armies protects us.
 4-6 River fountains splash joy, cooling God's city, this sacred haunt of the Most High.
   God lives here, the streets are safe, God at your service from crack of dawn.
   Godless nations rant and rave, kings and kingdoms threaten,
      but Earth does anything he says.
 7 Jacob-wrestling God fights for us, God-of-Angel-Armies protects us.
 8-10 Attention, all! See the marvels of God!
      He plants flowers and trees all over the earth,
   Bans war from pole to pole, breaks all the weapons across his knee.
   "Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God,
      above politics, above everything."
 11 Jacob-wrestling God fights for us, God-of-Angel-Armies protects us.
 
Trust is not a natural human inclination.  Let’s rethink our natural tendencies.  Take a moment just to be still and know that God is in control. 
                                                            See you in church!     
                                                            Pastor Mark

Let's Talk

Tuesday, July 14, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
We have been talking about RETHINKING CHURCH.    So many times we do things that either don’t work at all or don’t work effectively just because we have always done them.  So sometimes we have to rethink things. 
            There’s a story about a man who love the end crust of bread.  Every morning he would fix the toast for he and his wife for breakfast, and he would give her the crust  because he thought it was the best of what he had fixed.   One day the wife wasn’t feeling very well and hadn’t had a good night before.  When he fixed the toast and gave her a  piece, she snapped at him, “You always give me the crust, why do you do that?  I hate the crust.”   She had not wanted to hurt his feelings before, but when she was having a bad day in other ways things snapped.  He replied, “But I love the crust.  I thought you did too.”    All these years he thought he was doing something nice, and all these years he was really getting on her nerves. 
            You may think that’s just an old story, but it really happens.  It happens at  home, it happens at work, and it happens at church.  It happens because we have a hard time being honest with each other.  We aren’t good about ASKING what would be helpful or what the other person would like.  And we’re not good about RESPONDING in an honest way, either.  But when we don’t talk with each other LOVINGLY and HONESTLY, we wind up in situations where we get mad at each other and say things we really DON’T want to say or things we don’t really mean. 
            There are several Scriptures that come to mind when thinking about this kind of thing.  Isaiah says, “Come, let us reason together.”  Jesus talked about the truth setting us free.  He was ultimately talking about the truth of Christ, but we are really free to love each other as we learn to be truthful about who we are.  That’s part of why family is so precious when it is at its best.  We have some people who really understand us and love us in spite of our flaws and encourage us  when we fall short.  They know the TRUTH about us and LOVE us anyway.  That does make us free.   God knows the truth about us, and loves us anyway, and that is exactly what Jesus meant when he said the truth makes us free.
            If there are things at church that are bothering you, please come and let’s talk about them.  So many things get twisted and misunderstood when we bottle them inside.  People outside the church get really turned off when they see unhealthy communication patterns and a lack of grace and understanding within the church.  There is nothing we can’t talk about in Christian love.  There is ALWAYS a way of working out disagreements.   Sometimes it’s just a simple matter of understanding what the other person is trying to do.  Sometimes it’s a simple tweek or adjustment that needs to be made.   But even when it’s a big issue, we don’t further the cause of love by keeping our frustrations bottled up within until they explode. 
            My door is always open to talk to you about the church or about my personal duties as your pastor.  I hope our church can always be an example of talking to each other and loving and understanding each other and working together for the cause of Christ.
                                                            See you in church!        
                                                            Pastor Mark

Rethink Church

Tuesday, July 07, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
Our denomination has a program approved by the General Conference  (which met last year) which is entitled “RETHINKING CHURCH.”  It is a church-wide emphasis on appealing to a new generation of disciples.  There is a whole program on asking each church to evaluate  what they do and how they welcome new people into the church, and make sure each church is doing what they can to be as relevant and meaningful as they can be in a new day.
            Things do change.  Word meanings change through the years.  Customs change.  Ways of doing things change.  Who would have thought even 5 years ago that online banking would be so popular?  10 years ago the internet was very new and uncharted territory for many.  When I went to my last church they asked me if I would like a cell phone.  My thought then was “Why would anyone want to be that glued to a telephone!”  Of course, now I am crazy if I leave my phone at home or misplace it.  
            Have you ever wondered about the source of some colloquial phrasing?  Remember the phrase, “the cat’s meow”?  No one even uses it anymore.  If you used the phrase, “my ox was in a ditch” to someone under 30 years old, they would be very confused by what you meant.  A bite used to mean a way of eating your meal.  Now we talk about bytes, megabytes and gigabytes in terms of computer storage.  Virus has evolved from a health term to a computer term.  
            Our way of life has undergone an amazing transformation in the past very few years.  It’s affected our church in amazing ways, too.  Some of them are for the better, some are not.  Sunday morning is no longer set aside for church.  Non-church groups and activities used to respect Sundays.  No more.  Sunday morning attendance in every church of every denomination has taken hits because of it.  Communication has changed in amazing ways, which has been good for the church, but old ways of doing things have gone forever.  Travel opportunities are great and people go all year long.  It’s wonderful to have the chance to do it, but Sunday morning takes a hit when people go.
            What it all boils down to is that we need to “RETHINK CHURCH”  Over the next few weeks we will be talking about  this.  I hope you will be thinking about it, too.  How have the changes in our society in recent years affected how you do things.  How has it affected your children or your parents?  How has it affected how you practice your faith?  Let’s work hard at being FAITHFUL disciples in a new day.
                                                            See you in church!      
                                                            Pastor Mark
 

Independence Day Reflections

Tuesday, June 30, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
We are celebrating this week because there were people in our ancestry that had a dream. We are celebrating because people wanted something better for themselves that what they had and were willing to “throw caution to the wind” and reach for it. We are grateful today for people long ago who were willing to have dreams and be a little courageous about making their lives better.
            There were a lot of other people who were not willing to dream those dream and step out in faith a little bit. And sure, there were people who came to this “brave new world” to get away from ghosts of their pasts and skeletons in their closets. There were people who came as “opportunists” (in the worst sense of the word) who made life even harder for the “people of opportunity” who were coming for the brave and heroic reasons that reflected the courageous character we so admire. There are good and bad eggs in every bunch.
            But we cannot face this week, this holiday, without pausing to think a little about what we are doing to build the future for others as the founding patriots built a future for us. Are we investing our lives well and reaching for stars and broadening horizons in order to make our own lives better, thus making life better for all who will live in the days of tomorrow? It's a tough question.
            We have a Christian heritage that tells that story even long before the founding patriots of our country established that political heritage for us. The whole story of redemption is the story of how God wanted a better life for everyone, so he sent Christ to forge a new way of life in a brave new world. The difference is that the brave new world he offered was not a geographic place, but a place of the heart. And throughout the centuries, people have blazed the trail of the soul to discover a life that is more meaningful than we could ever imagine.
            Those who have taken the journey of the soul have furthered their challenge in Christian service and followed the call of Christ to new places to live, new occupations, new possibilities, and even a new awareness of who they are.  Of course, there are also many who are not willing to dream the dreams and make the journeys  of faith that take them to a meaningful life of discipleship.
            When was the last time you challenged yourself to experience something different? When was the last time you gave God the freedom to work in you and through you as God sees fit? When was the last time you took seriously the call of Christ to follow him to new places of the heart, new priorities for life, new purpose and new dreams? It takes a lot of courage, but it's well worth the investment.
 
                                                            See you in church!     
                                                            Pastor Mark

Concluding Thoughts

Wednesday, June 24, 2009 View Comments Comments (0)
I hope you notice as you read through this newsletter that we will be finishing our series on United Methodism, led by Rhoda Peters.  It has been a very enlightening and helpful time of learning about the ins and outs of who we are.
            We are concluding that series this week with a time to talk about things we would like to see happen in our church.  It is more and more important as days go by to get a firm handle on where God is leading us and we want to be in the future.  It is harder and harder to make things happen as days go by.  That means we must be more and more intentional about what we do and how we do it.  Sessions like these are very important to getting the ball rolling for our future.
            It used to be that churches could get by with just doing the basics and being warm and friendly because the church was much more prominent in people’s priorities.  And while we have a lot of people who have the church as a high priority in their lives, there are so many people who do not.  And the people who do have church as a high priority are also involved in so many other things.  That all works to make things harder on the mission of the church. 
            More and more people are working on Sundays, more and more are caring for elderly or sick relatives.  More and more people are snow-birding or traveling for work.  More and more people travel in seasons other than summer for pleasure purposes.  More and more youth  activities and sports teams play on Sundays.  There are so many things that are affecting participation and commitment levels in every church that we have to work harder and harder to get the same things done.
            KNOWING WHAT WE WANT TO DO AND WERE WE WANT TO BE is a critical element of getting things done.  No longer can we afford to just limp by and see what happens.  Ministry must be intentional.  It must be focused and driven.  We have to find creative ways of getting things done.  We have to be flexible and also be committed to making things happen.
            One of my seminary professors said once, “To hold on to favorite traditions of the past we must often let go of favorite traditions of our past.”  It sounded crazy at first, but it’s true.  If we want vital children’s ministry (for instance), we must adapt what we do to a new day and a new generation.  We must incorporate technology and modern methods into sharing the Gospel story.  It’s true in so many other areas too.  And again, it’s more and more important to know where God wants this church to go.  God speaks through each of us, and I hope you will come be a part of this conversation on Sunday night. 
 
                                                            See you in church!     
                                                            Pastor Mark